Life has cycles. We move into things and we move out of things. Some of the more challenging movements are when relationships end; or when we lose someone that we love through death or another way; or when something ends that is very important to us like a career. Other events which are much more positive can also be challenging, such as the formation of a relationship, getting married, buying a house, or having a baby. All these types of events in life touch our inner world. They open a door inside us.