If you grew up in a judgemental family or around people who were unaccepting, then you may have internalized homophobia. Below, Adam Blum shares a list of 30 ways to…...

Contributing writer, Adam Blum, shares insightful ways in which gay men can recover from affairs. As Blum says, “recovery is possible, and in fact, most gay couples do survive an…...

Gay men are more lonely than straight men. It pains me to write that. Gay men need positive inspiration and role models, not more negative statements. However, I am highlighting this fact…...

A quick way to improve one’s well-being is to practice disengaging from one’s Inner Critic. Here are the secrets to ditching the gay inner critic. What is the Purpose of…...

I remember back in the 1990s, when I was in graduate school studying to become a psychotherapist, it seemed like every professor ended up talking about “self-care.” I would think,…...

“What is hot?” Jack Morin, Ph.D, wrote the The Erotic Mind* back in 1995 and essentially answered that question. Eighteen years later, the book is still in print. Dr. Morin…...

As a couples counselor working with gay men, I am often asked my opinion on monogamy and open gay relationships. So, what works for men in long-term relationships? Hint: It…...

Last week, Barry and I found ourselves at 10 pm sitting at a special reserved table at The Stud, the first gay bar in San Francisco. First of all, there…...

I have worked with straight and gay couples for a very long time, and over the years I have come to realize that people know very little about sex. As…...

For some unexplainable reason, many people have the idea that gay folk are always rich or part of the upper-class. Just like it is with all other stereotypes, this one…...