Why are there so many hairstylists who are gay? Why are our homes so often featured in interior design magazines? What is it with gay men and femininity? Why are…...

Another unique situation that gay parents might find themselves in, is when one of the parents was in a straight relationship and came out before or after a divorce. In…...

Sometimes clients tell me that they are boring since they have no interests other than work. “I wish I had hobbies but I just can’t seem to get interested in…...

For most people, their family is the ultimate refuge where they can hide from the big bad world, but for gay children it is often not a refuge at all.…...

First, we said you should look after your body, next we said you should rectify your perspective on time, and then we said you should build a healthy outlook on…...

In a long-term relationship, it’s likely that one of you will want sex more frequently than the other. This can create uncomfortable conflicts. Here are some ideas that can help you…...

Is your relationship feeling stale? Or stressed? For most of us, the answer to these questions is a big “yes!” It’s hard to keep a feeling of aliveness in ourselves and in…...

Here’s one thing I’ve noticed in my work as an LGBTQ affirming psychotherapist. You are really mean. OK, it’s not just you. Most people are really mean to themselves. If…...

Adam Blum discusses fear and its role in all the little fights in a relationship, particularly in gay marriages. He also offers advice for how to reduce those little arguments…...

You are dating a five-year-old. Yes, that man across the dinner table from you–the one with beard stubble and crow’s–feet is actually a five-year-old boy. So are you. All of…...