Sex without love wouldn’t satisfy you for more than 15 minutes, and love without sex wouldn’t satisfy you at all. So how do you find both in the same man? That was the question I left you with in the article, “The Gay Problem: Finding a Loving Male Partner to Marry.”
A friend of mine is a life-insurance broker. He always says that there is only one rule for survival in sales and that is see people, see people, and see people. It’s a numbers game. Of all the people you are going to see, only between 2 and 10% will buy from you, so the more you see, the better your sales. Meeting people is exactly the same; the more people you meet, the better your chance of meeting the right person. Luckily, there are a few possibilities in meeting new people.
The older guys (read: even older than I am) tell us that they didn’t have gay clubs, bars, or dating services so they had to refine their gaydar and flirting skills. The fact is, those skills are still just as valuable today as they were years ago. Another important skill is taking it one step at a time. Two types of guys never end up with a perfect match: Those who fly off in a second, and those who never come out of the starting block. The guys that fly off are proposing marriage before they even know the other guy, and those in the starting blocks only stare, evening in and evening out.