So I’ve been hearing this one thing a lot from divorced and separated readers and clients of mine who are trying to move the hell on after divorce: they all…...

If you want to be more confident after divorce, the number one thing you must do is to stick up for yourself. Here’s the uncomfortable truth, friends: In your journey…...

No one taught us how to divorce peacefully, so most of what we see others doing is both hurtful and hateful. But if you can embody these tips to divorce…...

Hey, so does this ever happen to you?  It may have been months since your divorce ended, and you thought you were doing okay.  You were picking yourself up financially,…...

If you read, “Want to Feel Better After Your Divorce? Quit Apologizing,” you learned three uncomfortable truths about being an apologetic woman and the dangers of saying, “I’m sorry.” So…...

Many women, especially those who’ve been divorced, find themselves apologizing for anything and everything, but it’s time to quit saying, “I’m sorry,” and start feeling better. Have you ever been…...

I’ve been thinking a lot about a growing trend in divorce: when your spouse leaves you. Spouse Abandonment AKA when you thought the marriage was fine and you were looking…...

Continuing the series on Stepfamilies, this revised and updated excerpt from Mel’s book examines the steps that can be taken to avoid some of the problems that may arise for…...

Divorce is completely unfair and can make you feel like life has screwed you over and nobody cares. It’s up to you to move on. Ah, if only moving on…...

A Letter From a Reader Dear Mel, My husband and I are getting divorced. There’s no one else on either side. We just shouldn’t ever have gotten married in the…...