Has anyone come to you within the last week and asked you, “What do you need?” or “What can I do for you?”
If your answer is “yes,” that’s amazing. If your answer is “no,” this will be helpful for you.
You’ll never get what you need by demanding what you want. – Matthew L. Jacobson
We’re all in survival mode right now. You likely are and so is your spouse.
The difference is that women have been socialized to put others’ needs before their own, where men have not been taught to do so. That doesn’t make men insensitive or selfish.