Although we seek love, we may unwittingly damage or derail it. Surprisingly, our fear of not being loved, which includes fear of abandonment, loneliness, and rejection, can lead to eight…

So, you are single and your friends tell you that you are great! You are beautiful, educated, and have a great job. What you don’t have is a partner to…...

Most relationships fail, and nearly half of American adults are unmarried. Why can’t we find love, and why don’t relationships last? Paradoxically, as much as we want love, we also…...

Looking for love is hard. You need to look in the right places with the right people to find who you’re looking for. Also, you must be authentic and true…...

Love Has A Mind of Its Own Although highly enjoyable (at certain stages), falling in love is problematic. The first problem is who we can fall in love with. We can fall…...

The way we search for love usually determines the kind of love we find. Our popular culture assails us with this kind of hyper-elevated romantic image of love. Then it…...

As a matchmaker, I do a lot of coaching around the “where is this relationship going” talk. And this is a biggie. Some women blow it by coming off needy,…...

Codependency robs us of a self and self-love. We’ve learned to conceal who we really are because we grew up pleasing, rebelling against, or withdrawing from dysfunctional parents. This sets…...

Lots of women ignore red flags and end up settling for men that don’t treat them right because they don’t want to start all over in the dating pool. But…...

If you’re actively attempting to better your dating life by approaching others and trying to get more ‘leads’ into your phone, then sooner or later you’re going to realize that…...