Physical Arousal: The Desire to Be Desired The one other universal determinant of female attraction is the desire to be desired. There are data and new conclusions suggesting that women are turned…...

Burying a Fear of Betrayal in the Undergrowth The trouble is, how well do we ever know anyone? There’s a Bible verse that says: the heart is deceitful above all things.…...

Do men seem to skip over you? The overly discriminating woman unknowingly projects an unapproachable presence to the very man she wants to attract. In other words, rejection breeds rejection.…...

How Well Do You Know the Man in Your Life? A Letter From a Client Dear Mel, I have never done anything like this before, but I feel I am…...

Have you ever gone out with a man when it felt like everything was going so smoothly? You’re having fun…then he just ends it for no reason at all. Did…...

Have you ever gone out with someone you really liked but you didn’t hear from him after the first date? Did you ever text a man after a fantastic evening…...

I knew a woman who so longed to be loved, held, and not feel lonely that she gave her lover, a man who she had only recently met and knew…...

Relationships aren’t easy. I mean, we can’t just go with the flow, do what we feel like, and think that it’s going to be okay. And while this approach is…...

I admit it. I can be quite the Alpha Female. I had to learn how to deal with men in a different way. I’d always gotten along with men; laughing,…...

This is an excerpt from the Vissell’s new book, To Really Love a Man. To really love a man is to choose him over and over again. It’s not enough to say…...