Imagine resolving a conflict with a partner or child in half the time and with both parties walking away feeling happy and close. Adults spend an enormous amount of time…...

Here is a useful way of looking at relationships, and I use this in all my work with couples both as a way of seeing where they are, but also…...

Do You Put in More Effort Than Others? Make Your Efforts Feel Effortless I’ve lost count of the number of people who get in touch with me asking: “How can…...

Many couples enter marriage with the mistaken belief that it is a ‘blissful state of life’ which will last forever. There is no greater myth than this. Living ‘happily ever…...

Contributing writer, Adam Blum, shares insightful ways in which gay men can recover from affairs. As Blum says, “recovery is possible, and in fact, most gay couples do survive an…...

Have you ever had the experience of trying to resolve a conflict and running up against your partner’s self-blame in a way that stops any exploration or possibility of a…...

While Arielle was home with their two young daughters and Jerry was the sole provider for the family, he felt secure in his position as the husband. When the girls…...

If you’re wondering whether or not you satisfied your girl last night, let me help you out. You didn’t. A woman’s orgasm isn’t a secret, and it’s not something she…...

We all have expectations for the relationships in our lives. You’ve been pulling a lot of long days on your job and feel hurt when your supervisor doesn’t seem to…...

Intimacy Deficiency Disorder (IDD)  is an insidious relationship-threatening condition that if unaddressed, can undermine and severely damage even the most loving partnerships. In Part One we identified the most prevalent…...