“I’m dating. When should I have sex?”
On the first date? Third date? After a month? As soon as you lose 10 pounds?
When to have sex depends on what you want, where you’re at, and most importantly, what your needs and goals are.
“I WANT THIS RELATIONSHIP TO LAST”
If you want a new romance to go the distance, then don’t jump into the sack too soon – you’ll only screw things up, in my opinion. Better to wait and get to know the person. Find out who they are, and what they’re looking for.
As I like to say, feel them out before you feel them up.
If you introduce sex too soon, you run the risk of it becoming all about the sex – which is OK if that’s what BOTH parties want. The other risk with early sex is early flame out. You want this thing to build.