If you want to be more confident after divorce, the number one thing you must do is to stick up for yourself.

Here’s the uncomfortable truth, friends: In your journey to get confident and feel better about yourself, you cannot be afraid to step on toes. Don’t be afraid to piss people off. It’s how you’ll be more confident after divorce.

Strong women will end up pissing people off. And that’s okay. If you want to be more confident after divorce, you must.

Now, to be clear, I’m not talking about pissing folks off in the wanton, sociopathic, “Fatal Attraction” bunny rabbit kind of way.