You fall in love quickly. A man needs time to develop feelings for a woman.

Let’s be honest: Do you have a pattern of sleeping with a man on date 1, 2 or 3, and then you regret it because he stops texting or calling you? Does your promiscuity evoke feelings of embarrassment, guilt, and remorse? Do you feel devalued and disheartened after you sleep with a guy you barely know—and you worry about contracting STDs?

You went out with a new man. In fact, he’s the most fascinating man you’ve met in a long time. You know nothing about him, but you hop into bed with him. You didn’t intend to sleep with him, but the smoking-hot chemistry drugged you. Then, you invited him into your home for a nightcap, maybe you drank too much, and before you know it, you succumbed to your inebriated animal instincts.