Are you ready to attract a quality man? Do you want a romantic long-term relationship with a good man? If you do, you’ll want to make sure you’re connecting with him on four levels. When you understand the connections between the heart, friendship, and intimacy, and how they work together in a relationship, you’ll be able to determine whether or not a man you’re interested in is someone you can go the long haul with.
Types of Connections
1. Your Heart and Friendship
If you and a man connect through your heart and through friendship, you’ve probably found a man you absolutely love and adore.
The two of you can talk for hours, but when it comes to sexual chemistry, the spark is missing or flat.
This connection creates a lasting friendship with a great man long after the date has ended.
He’s perfect for taking to a wedding or an event that you don’t want to attend on your own.
Or he’s the one you take to the latest movie you want to see so you don’t have to go alone.
Either way, it’s nice to be around male energy, and this type of relationship is usually laid back and easy.
2. Friendship and Intimacy
This combo could be known as: Friends with Benefits.
This connection suits you on the days you want fantastic mental and physical stimulation.
There is not a heart connection.
In fact, after having mind-blowing sex, the two of you could easily get out of bed and go back to doing your own thing with no sex afterglow or cuddling.
Be careful if you decide to go this route.
You can stay connected to a man for up to two weeks after the two of you have been intimate with each other.
He, on the other hand, stays connected for about forty-five minutes.
3. Your Heart and Intimacy
Have you ever met a man where your heart opens, the sparks fly, and you find yourself almost instantaneously in love?
It feels like all you want to do is spend the day in bed, feeling the love that abundantly spills between the two of you.
This is chemistry, an Oxytocin high, and it’s a connection you’ll have with a man through your heart and your body.
It’s strong, and it rarely gets you anywhere because there is no friendship beneath it.
Without friendship, the relationship can wither away as the intensity of sex fades.
I had this type of connection with my second husband.
We had tremendous chemistry, and we quickly fell so crazy in love that we were engaged within three months.
It was a whirlwind relationship that ended almost two years to the day we were married.
I could have saved myself a lot of heartache if I’d had this knowledge back then.
If you find yourself attracted to a man this intensely, run before you get too connected!
4. Your Heart, A Friendship, and Intimacy
A connection that includes your heart, friendship, and intimacy has the potential for creating a long term relationship.
It doesn’t mean it will always work out, but it is a signal to move ahead if this is what you want.
These four connections will also give you the key to figuring out why your relationships weren’t working in the past.
Can you see what connection might have been missing that kept the relationship from working the way you wanted it to?
Now that you understand the four connection, you’ll be able to quickly assess the relationship potential with any man you date and figure out exactly how a man will fit in your life just by using this invaluable dating tool.
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