When you got married, I bet you never – in a million years – would have imagined asking yourself, “What if my husband hates me?”
Of course not.
When people walk down the aisle, they expect that their spouse will love them, treat them well, be their best friend, and live happily ever after. Then, one day (like today), you find yourself looking for a solution to a problem you never imagined could exist.
But how did you get here?
What Leads to Resentment and Hatred in a Marriage?
How did it come to this? While it is different for every couple, there are some things that can lead to a lot of resentment (and even hate) in a marriage. Let’s take a look at a few of them.
When someone gets married, a lot of people – especially men – think, “Ahhhh…I’m married! Now I don’t have to do any more work on this relationship!”
In other words, they get lazy.
When you are dating, it’s common for men to do the chasing. For some, it’s just biologically wired into them. However, once they think they “have you,” then all the effort seems to disappear.
But just because a lot of men get neglectful doesn’t mean you might not have neglected your husband, too. It could be in any area of your relationship – sex, love, attention, friendship…you name it. So, take a look at your actions to see if you have neglected him in any way.