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Playing the Field – Dating More Than One Guy at a Time

written by Nancy Nichols July 9, 2018
Women flirting at the bar and playing the field

Don’t feel guilty about playing the field!

I was never good at dating more than one man at time. When a man showed a genuine interest in me, I would stop dating other men for one BIG reason: I lacked confidence to juggle several men at once because I doubted my self-worth.

I was never comfortable playing the field by dating two guys at a time – I felt sneaky and unethical. I didn’t know how to deal with two men texting and calling me or how to handle their sexual advances. I was afraid if a guy found out that I was dating someone else, he would drop me.

When I was smitten with a new man (fantasizing that he liked me as much as I liked him) I immediately declined date invitations from other men. That rarely worked out for me; he would sense my relationship agenda and he would stop calling me. If I casually (accidentally) slept with a man, I felt morally obligated to cut myself off from other guys. I threw all my eggs into his basket and we dated until he inexplicably disappeared into the night.

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